Why To Stop Gambling
It is the first step to stop gambling addiction. Read books on gambling addiction: Gambling addiction is a flaw that won’t be overcome easily, therefore it is always advisable to arm oneself before fighting such battle. There are several books available offline and online about ways to stop gambling. You need to get some of these books. Believe me you can stop, we can all stop. I'm on day 11 after 5 years straight of gambling or thinking of gambling every day. I still think about it non stop but I feel so much better not being trapped in that cycle anymore. My dad also had a gambling problem for 20+ years. Few years ago we discovered 30k of debt he racked up. Gambling Addiction & Recovery Support Group. Compulsive gambling is an urge or addiction to gamble despite harmful negative consequences or a desire to stop. A preferred term among many professionals is problem gambling, as few people described by the term experience true compulsions in the clinical sense of the word.
Many people find themselves unable to explain why they continue to gamble, or cannot stop gambling;
Callers to the Dunlewey Helpline often ask a number of questions…..
Why do I gamble?
Many people find themselves unable to explain why they continue to gamble despite the problems it causes in their day-to-day lives. The most obvious answer is “for the money” but is this true? When you win, do you spend your winnings on more gambling? Do you continue to gamble until you have little or no money left?
In our experience, even though winning money may have attracted you at first, most people who have a gambling problem are using gambling as an opportunity to escape from other problems or pressures in their lives – problems at home or at work, boredom, loneliness or anxiety. Understanding what role gambling is playing in your life can be an important first step in beating the problem.
How do I stop gambling?
There is unlikely to be one single answer that will enable you to stop gambling. Gambling problems are complex and it can take time and effort to overcome them.
Remember:
• You will probably need to use a number of different strategies to help you stop
• You are more likely to succeed with support from others
• Nearly everyone has relapses along the way – in order to stop gambling for a decent length of time, you’ll need to be prepared to learn from these and try again.
What can I do to deal with my gambling?
Dunlewey counselling services provides a safe, confidential way for you to talk about your situation.
It offers an opportunity to explore the causes of your gambling behaviour and the effects gambling has on your life, and helps put it in context of your life experiences.
• Schedule alternative activities at the times you’re most likely to gamble
• Make it harder to access your money. Ask someone you trust to handle your money for an agreed period of time (e.g. 3 months)
• Self-exclusion (banning yourself from gambling venues) can be very helpful in reducing your opportunities to gamble
If you feel strong enough, consider writing your feelings down, e.g. in a diary. If you are not gambling, note how you are feeling and how you have coped. If you have gambled, think about the events that led up to the gambling episode and record your feelings, during and after.
Contact the Dunlewey HelpLine during times of crisis for emotional support and consider joining a self-help support group such as Gamblers Anonymous.
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Take Steps
• Try to stop all gambling while you are breaking the dependency. You need to do this in order to break the habit.
• Look for patterns in your behaviour. Do you gamble, or need to gamble, when you feel bored, stressed or under pressure?
• Using a calendar, mark each day you do not gamble. This gives you a visual marker of your progress. If you have a bet, use the calendar to see how many days up to then you had managed to stay clear of gambling. Set a target to beat that number
• Reward yourself after a period of free from gambling, by spending some of the money you have saved on yourself. Buy something personal that is not related to gambling. If you feel uncomfortable handling money, take a friend along with you.
Take Care
• Take one day at a time. If you do this, you’ll find it easier to break your gambling habit.
• Be prepared for withdrawal symptoms. You may feel depressed, irritable, shaky and you may get palpitations.
• There will be times when you may feel desperate to gamble – don’t! Call the Dunlewey HelpLine to talk to someone about your feelings.
• Develop your range of interests, especially those that involve other people. Try to do things with friends and family who are not gamblers.
• Dependency on gambling can be replaced by a range of activities and interests that will meet similar needs.
• Try out some sports of activities which have a strong element of competition or involve taking calculated risks.
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Take Heart
Way To Stop Gambling
• Be positive. The key is to ensure that any changes you make are manageable and realistic. Then, with each goal that you achieve, you will grow in confidence and self-esteem. You will also find you have the incentive to reach the next goal. If you have been gambling for many years, don’t expect your life to improve immediately. It will take a lot of hard work and motivation from you to change.
• If you have a ‘slip’, do not punish yourself – breaking a dependency is very difficult. Instead, reflect on the day and think about what you have learnt from it. Congratulate yourself for abstaining for so long.
• Be optimistic – you can overcome a gambling dependency. Some gamblers find it impossible to go back to gambling without losing control, whilst others are able to gamble again at a later stage but in a controlled way.
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This information is designed to help you to manage your feelings and cope with the issues associated with gambling. It is not designed to replace the support and guidance available from seeing a Dunlewey counsellor or attending a support group. Contact the Dunlewey HelpLine on 1800 936 725 or 08000 886 725 to find out about the counselling and support services available in your area.